Close but no cigar

That's such a weird saying. but i'm not continuing.


but - tonight i'm gonna lay down a few of my basic guy rules.

First up - men. boys, really. I will start by saying that if i like a guy, i will probably check him out a little first. see if he has a gf, if he hangs out with weirdos/cool people, if he does drugs, ect. if i don't like you, i won't do this. that's how it is. if i still think he's okay after all that, i might consider actually asking him out/talking to him (depends on the intimidation factor) Those are, generally, my guy rules.

There are some don'ts, of course. NEVER stalk me. ever ever ever. *cough* ian *cough* not cute, guys, it's scary. also, i like my guys to have some looks. a little vain, but if he's not cute and has no personality (or just lacks both/either) then it's no for sure.

also, i try SUPER hard to be nice. if i know you like me, and i don't like you back, i'm gonna try the subtle hints first. after that, i might actually have to drop a few bigger ones. then, of course, i'm just gonna have to say it outright so that you stop. and don't go hating me for it - i'll try the hints for as long as i'm able.

next up - my advice from a former close male friend. i've made it a little more user friendly, but these are some tips i got from his pov, so please take it into consideration that this isn't exactly me talking. i just liked most of his advice.


From a guys point of view:

We don't care if you talk to other guys.

We don't care if you're friends with other guys.

But when you're sitting next to us, and some random guy walks into the room and you jump up and tackle him, without even introducing us, yeah, it pisses us off.

It doesn't help if you sit there and talk to him for ten minutes without even acknowledging the fact that we're still there.

We don't care if a guy calls you, but at 2 in the morning we do get a little concerned. Nothing is that important at 2 a.m. that it can't wait till the morning.

Also, when we tell you you're pretty/ beautiful/ gorgeous/ cute/ stunning, we freaking mean it.

Don't tell us we're wrong.

We'll stop trying to convince you.

The sexiest thing about a girl is confidence.

Push us down on the couch and make a move once in a while. We like that aggressiveness about you and we like the unexpected. When we know you're really happy, it makes us happy too.

Don't be mad when we hold the door open.
Take Advantage of the mood im in.



We enjoy doing it (Paying for you).

It's expected.

Smile and say "thank you."

Kiss us when no one's watching.

If you kiss us when you know nobody's looking we'll be more impressed.

You don't have to get dressed up for us.

If we're going out with you in the first place, you don't have to feel the need to wear the shortest skirt you have or put on every kind of makeup you own.

We like you for WHO you are and not WHAT you are.

honestly, i think a girl looks more beautiful when she's just in her pj's. or my tshirt and boxers, not all dolled up

Don't take everything we say seriously.

Sarcasm is a beautiful thing. See the beauty in it.

Don't get angry easily.

Stop using magazines/media as your bible.

***Don't talk about how hott Morris Chesnutt, Brad Pitt, or Jesse McCartny is in front of us.

***It's boring, and we don't care.
You have girlfriends for that.

Whatever happened to the word "handsome"/"beautiful"

I'd be utterly stunned by a girl who greeted me with "Hey
handsome!" instead of "Hey baby/ stud/ cutie/ sexy" or whatever else you can think of.

If we ask you if you're alright, it's a genuine concern.
The only reason we ask is because we care.
Or if we ask what's wrong and you say "Nothing" with or without a smile, we know something is wrong.
Just tell us what it is. We're the boyfriend, we're here to listen because we care."


and that's that. good night all! ^.^ 

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